Hello everyone, it’s Sarah Powell here, ready to guide you through another interesting aspect of the sugar baby journey. A common question that a potential sugar daddy may ask is, “What are you looking for?” This seemingly simple question can sometimes leave sugar babies flustered or uncertain of what to say. Here’s how to handle it.
How to communicate what type of arrangement I want
Before you actually start any arrangement, you should understand and be able to communicate what are you looking for in a sugar daddy. At some point, he will ask you something like Sugar baby, what are you looking for? What are your expectations?
First, research what types of sugar arrangements there are. You can check related posts on Quora and Reddit, where sugar babies and sugar daddies share their experiences and expectations. Before you figure out what to say to a sugar daddy, decide how often you’re ready to see him and how much time you can devote. If you’re interested in this one man and want to focus on a single arrangement, you can opt for monthly allowance, regular meetings and quality time together.
If you’re not ready to devote yourself to a single sugar daddy and want to schedule a couple of dates a month, you can get paid per meet. If you have multiple sugar daddies, multiple dates and don’t want to establish a stable long-term connection, this is a great option, but you should be able to communicate that clearly. Among other things to say to a sugar daddy, mention you boundaries. Explain what you are willing and not willing to do and how close you would like to get with him. All these questions you should also ask your sugar daddy to see if you’re on the same page.
Clarity is Key
Firstly, let’s clarify one thing: this question is a great opportunity to express your needs and desires. It opens the door to a frank conversation about your expectations and what you hope to gain from the relationship. So, the first rule is to be clear and concise in your response.
Personal Desires and Aspirations
Every sugar baby is unique, with different motivations for entering the sugar bowl. Some may be looking for financial support to pay for their education or start a business, while others might want a mentor in their chosen field or the opportunity to experience a luxurious lifestyle. Be honest about your goals, whether they’re financial, educational, career-oriented, or lifestyle-driven.
For example, you might say, “I’m looking for financial assistance to help me through college, as well as the opportunity to learn from someone who’s experienced and successful.”
Emotional and Time Expectations
It’s not just about the financial aspects. Make sure you communicate your emotional and time expectations too. If you want a relationship where you meet your sugar daddy only a few times a month, say so. If you want something more emotionally involved, express that.
A response could be, “I’m looking for a relationship where we can meet a few times a month and enjoy each other’s company without any pressure.”
Mutual Benefit
While expressing your needs, remember to highlight what you can offer in return. The best sugar relationships are mutually beneficial.
So, you might say, “In return, I can offer companionship, enjoyment of shared activities, and insightful conversation.”
In Conclusion
When a sugar daddy asks what you’re looking for, it’s your opportunity to shape the relationship in a way that suits you. Be honest, be clear, and don’t be afraid to express your desires. After all, successful sugar relationships are built on open communication and mutual satisfaction.
Until next time, Sarah Powell
